The method
Brian Tracy's 10 Goals Method: A Step-by-Step Guide
Ten goals, written from memory every morning. One of them chosen as the goal that would change everything. Here is how the daily practice works, and how to make it stick.
Gratitude
Sixty prompts, grouped by theme, for the days when "my family, my health, coffee" is all you can think to write. Plus how to keep the habit fresh.
A gratitude journal is one of the simplest habits you can keep. You write down a few things you’re thankful for, and that’s it. The hard part comes around day twelve, when you open the page and write “my family, my health, coffee” for the fifth time. That’s where gratitude journal prompts help. A good prompt points your attention at something you would otherwise walk past.
Below are 60 prompts, grouped by theme, so you can pick one that fits the day. First, a few minutes on how to keep a gratitude journal so it keeps working.
You don’t need a special notebook or a long ritual. A daily gratitude practice works best when it’s short, concrete and a little different each time.
Some days are flat. That’s normal. Write one small thing and stop. A single honest line counts for more than three forced ones. If you’re stuck, open this list and take the first prompt your eye lands on.
Use one prompt a day, or two or three if you have time. Answer in a sentence or two, and always add the why.
Brian Tracy’s method asks you to write 10 goals every morning, from memory, in the present tense, as if already achieved: “I run a half marathon in under 2 hours.” It looks forward by design. You picture what you want and commit to it again each day. Our step-by-step guide to Brian Tracy’s 10 goals method walks through it.
Gratitude looks the other way. It notices what’s already here. The two balance each other:
A simple rhythm: write your 10 goals in the morning, then add two or three gratitude entries. Or keep goals in the morning and gratitude at night, when the day has given you material. See how the 10 goals method works for the morning part.
If you journal to manifest, gratitude often plays the same grounding role. Our guide to starting a manifestation journal covers that side.
Try it in Tenly: Tenly keeps your 10 daily goals and your gratitude journal side by side. Write up to 20 gratitude entries a day, with a streak of their own. With Pro, a weekly Gratitude Reflection unlocks your past week with an AI look at its themes, if you’ve agreed to AI analysis.
Daily is the usual advice. It isn’t the only option, and the research is more mixed than most prompt lists admit.
In a well-known 2003 paper, Robert Emmons and Michael McCullough asked people to list up to five things they were grateful for. In the first study they did it once a week; in the next two, daily. The gratitude groups did better than the comparison groups on several, though not all, measures. The authors note that the daily version was, on average, more powerful at bringing on feelings of gratitude.
Two years later, Sonja Lyubomirsky, Kennon Sheldon and David Schkade described a six-week study in which students counted their blessings either once a week or three times a week. Well-being rose only in the once-a-week group. The authors suggest that doing it several times a week may have made the practice feel less fresh and meaningful. They also note the study didn’t test whether the gains lasted.
So there’s no single right answer. What seems to matter most is that the practice stays fresh.
| Frequency | Daily | A few times a week | Weekly |
|---|---|---|---|
| Good for | Building the habit, noticing small things | People who find daily entries repetitive | A deeper look back |
| Watch out for | Going on autopilot | Skipping without noticing | Forgetting early-week details |
| Keep it fresh by | Rotating prompts, going specific | Fixing the days in advance | Reading your notes before you write |
A practical middle path: write short entries during the week, and look back once a week. That’s how Tenly is built. You can write every day, and the weekly Gratitude Reflection waits seven days before it unlocks your week, so looking back feels new rather than routine.
If you catch yourself copying yesterday’s list, treat it as a signal. Switch prompts, write less often, or go deeper on a single entry.
Family, health, coffee. They’re real, but after a week they stop meaning much. Keep them, and add one new detail: which moment with your family, what your health let you do today.
Speed-writing five items is a checklist, not gratitude. Slow down on one. Picture it for a few seconds. Then write why it matters.
Gratitude isn’t pretending everything is fine. On a bad day, the honest entry might be “I’m grateful this day is over and I’m in bed.” That counts. The hard-day prompts above are there for exactly this.
A page a day sounds good for a week. Then it becomes a chore. Short and regular beats long and rare.
A streak helps you show up. But a line written only to save the streak isn’t doing much for you. If you miss a day, start again the next morning. For practical questions about keeping the habit in the app, see the Tenly FAQ.
Write one to five specific things you're thankful for and add a short reason for each. On days when nothing comes to mind, answer a single prompt.
Three to five is a common range, but one detailed entry is enough. Tenly lets you write up to 20 a day if you want more room.
Either works. Mornings point your attention at the day ahead; evenings give you the day's events to draw on. Pick the time you can keep.
Start very small: something you ate, a place you rested, someone who was kind. On hard days, one honest line is enough.
No, a notebook works fine. An app like Tenly adds reminders, a gratitude streak and, with Pro, a weekly reflection on the themes in your entries.